About Kimber KivaGarden
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When did you start developing this philosophy about HeartCentred Intuitives?
While I learned about Carl Jung and personality typing in school, reading everything I could about the subject, it was not until after I graduated that I retook the quiz at a transitional time in my life and career. Only this time, when I took it, the results were more consistent with who I had become. Reading that as an INFJ I was only 1.5% of the population, I got curious about the percentages for other personality types. After doing some research, I created a graphic, and the results were astounding. When I discovered that only 25% of the population was iNtutive I was floored.
Suddenly my entire life made sense. The lack of belonging I felt wasn't just because my family moved around alot. It was because I was a distinct part of a minority: a minority that was so little known that no one even talked about it.
As I was transitioning in careers, I started wondering about where I fit in the world with the ideas and concepts floating around in my head. I had created several courses, iNtuitively, and wondered about their value and purpose.
I started meeting with people for coffee, and was astounded by what was happening. 99% of the people I was meeting were HeartCentred Intuitives™️.
How was that possible? It was statistically improbable.
I realized then that what was happening for a reason. There was a reason why I was magnetizing HeartCentred Intuitives™.
What did you discover?
Sitting across the table, having 'coffee' with all these HeartCentred Intuitives™️ I was taken aback by what I heard.
As an INFJ, what happened to me is what happens commonly to us INFJs: people felt a sense of Trust and Security in my presence. They told me - a complete stranger - things that are not normally told in such a situation.
A pattern emerged in the stories I heard. I was already aware of Brene Brown's work on shame. I was both saddened and alarmed with what I heard.
And I understood why it was happening, why these people experienced such deep shame - like something was wrong with them - that came out as self-harm, eating disorders, social anxiety addiction and the like.
The cause was there in the graphic I had created: a pie graph with 25% of the population being iNtuitive and 75% of the population being Sensing types.
I got it. I Understood. I Knew what was happening.
A conviction swelled within my being, "Not on my watch!" Not on my watch.
Back then I was an INFJ-T. I was so excited when I finally made it: I got a score 63% -Assertive! So now I Guide others - like a Lighthouse in a storm- so others can do the same.
What is your greatest intention?
When it comes to your philosophy about HeartCentred Intuitives™ what is your intention?
My intention is to stop the shaming that is experienced both internally and externally for both Mind and HeartCentred Intuitives™. There is absolutely zero reason for any of us iNtutives to feel like there is something wrong with us (manifesting as -Turbulent identities) simply because we Receive iNspiration from the Divine. Absolute Zero!
It is an autrocitie that has happened for generations. And yet the greatest minds and hearts that have ever lived on this planet are Mind and HeartCentred Intuitives™! Check out the lists at 16 Personalities.com and Kerisey.com. It is profound to think, see and know that all of these individuals Received iNspiration from the Divine and that is what has lead them in their individual lifetimes. Look at the people we know today, living on this planet, that are HeartCentred Intuitives™. Look at what they are doing with their lives, what they are saying, the iNspiration they are Providing to others.
The shaming has to stop.
We need healthy, strong, confident HeartCentred Intuitives™ with -Assertive identities. We really do!
That is why I am stepping up to the plate.
Tell us about your emoji.
It isn't easy, being an introverted sensitive being, in such a public forum. I hope that people respect my need for privacy and less stimulating environments.
The thing is, it isn't about me; it is about the philosophy I have been Given and bringing that out into the world. I hope that these concepts remain here, influencing what happens on this planet, long after I am gone: for 7+ generations or as long as the grass grows and the river flows, whichever is the longest.
Besides, HeartCentred Intuitives™ don't need my picture. They can Feel who I am and what I am about. MindCentred Intuitives™ simply Know who I am and what I am about. It is the75% of the population that relies on their senses that need pictures. Shrug. It isn't them that I am writing for.
So there are four reasons why I use an emoji instead of my picture. I am a highly sensitive iNtuitive being. I lavish in privacy. I THRiVE in less stimulating environments. And my people simply Know me.
Any last words?
That is a great question. Can I get back to you? I would appreciate having some time to Contemplate the answer to that question.
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Ok. I am back. I do, actually, have a final message. Thanks for the pause.
As I stepped away, for a time, the lynx-hare cycle Came to mind. Do you know anything about it?
It is an interesting predator-prey cycle where the lynx is the predator and the snowshoe hare is the prey.
The Predatory-Prey Cycle of the Lynx and the Hare
The lynx and snowshoe hare live in northern Canada. They experience a 10-year cycle. During that time the hare population steadily grows. The increase in the lynx population, which primarily eats snowshoe hare, lags behind in time.
Eventually, the rabbit population grows to such a degree, that the habitat can not sustain its numbers: not only does starvation set in, now the lynx population has grown to such a degree that predation becomes a problem.
The hare population subsequently decreases, and as a result so does the lynx population.
Then, in time, the cycle occurs once again.
It is ten years between peaks, or troughs, whichever you look at.
What does that have to do with HeartCentred Intuitives™?
While expanding on the topics of Empaths, the following question was answered: How do I avoid predatory-type people? Answering that activity led to a downloadable document, which includes an Ecological Relationship Inventory.
That is how the lynx-hare population and HeartCentred Intuitives™ connect.
If we consider that in the past empathic HeartCentred Intuitives™, those with -Turbulent identities, were considered prey by various nefarious predatory beings: what would happen if all of the sudden, like the hare population, the prey suddenly disappeared?
What would happen if HeartCentred Intuitives™ around the world developed the predator-repellent characteristics associated with confident -Assertive identities?
What would happen to these nefarious predatory beings? Would they simply cease to exist in the same way that the lynx do? What kind of cycle would occur then? How many generations would have to pass to have the cycle repeat itself? OR, would we be able to raise our children and society in such a way that the insecurities experienced by self-doubting HeartCentred Intuitives™ with -Turbulent identities no longer exist: intergenerationally.
What a philosophical question!
Only when individual empathic HeartCentred Intuitives™ choose to cease to be prey can create such an outcome manifest.
What do you choose?
To be prey to predators?
To be a host to parasites?
To engage in altruism, amensalism or competition?
Or to have flexible and impermeable boundaries so that you can choose the types of relationships you enter into?
NEXT STEPS
Check out the downloadable. Complete the Ecological Relationship Inventory. And decide. Which outcome will you create for your self/Self? Which will you hand down to future generations: as long as the grass grows and the rivers flow? 🕊️ KK
